And this of all my Hopes
This, is the silent end
Bountiful colored, my Morning rose
Early and sere, its end
Never Bud from a Stem
Stepped with so gay a Foot
Never a Worm so confident
Bored at so brave a Root
-Emily Dickinson
The thing about having done something multiple times before is that you expect it to go the same way the next time you do it. You think you know where all the possible problems are and what you need to do to prepare for them.
And then things go wrong in a way you never expected.
On Monday April 28th Brayton and Pearson went with me to my 16 week OB appointment. We had seen the baby twice via ultrasound in weeks 11 and 12. During those ultrasounds everything looked great and the baby had passed the nuchal screen with flying colors. We had told family and were telling friends whenever we chatted with them.
Instead of walking out of my appointment with a date for my gender-determining ultrasound I had a date for my D&C. I had an early second trimester missed miscarriage.
Thankfully I also have an amazing supportive family and a mother who doesn't hesitate to fly halfway around the world on 24 hour notice.
My mom arrived on Wednesday and I had my surgery on Thursday.
Of course, the rest of life doesn't stop.
Friday May 2nd was McColley's school's talent show. McColley performed with his class:
They did a selection of M.inecraft parody songs (that McColley had taught the class):
We have been blessed with a supportive community here in England. The spouses' group I have been Vice President of for the last year sent us a lovely bouquet (and then provided us meals for two weeks after Mom left):
On Saturday May 3rd I felt well enough to go out and do something. It was a beautiful day and it made sense to go somewhere beautiful. We headed to Windsor Castle:
We got there a bit later than expected which ended up working in our favor - the boys had plenty of space to chase each other with all the tourists gone!
The boys had a scavenger hunt worksheet to complete and the last item was to count all the animals on St. George's Chapel:
Unfortunately Mom had to go home on Sunday May 4th. While I took her to the airport Brian took the boys to 'De.adly Aerial Assassins' at Whip.snade Zoo... we had booked tickets weeks in advance:
The big boys REALLY REALLY wanted to go because the show was hosted by Steve Backsh.all - the UK's version of Steve Ir.win:
The boys walked around the zoo after the show - McColley had to take a picture with the snow leopard display because he was doing a school project on them:
As the boys were walking back to the car they happened upon an Elephant Parade:
We then had a week of 'normal' before it was time for the boys' dance recital!
McColley performed his tap dance routine to 'You've Got A Friend In Me' during the first half:
Both boys performed their ballet routines during the second half. Brayton performed to 'Under The Sea' and McColley performed to 'Can You Feel The Love Tonight':
The last six weeks have been filled with ups and downs and ridiculous paperwork as we have all come to grips with what happened. The boys are handling everything exceptionally well and we are so grateful to have three such beautiful and healthy boys in our lives.